FMLA Update – Week Two – Five

For the past month of my FMLA leave, I have been trying to balance living in the moment and doing things with friends and family while also taking care of my health.  I’ve begun taking longer walks than I had previously over the past month and even tried some yoga for arthritis.  Though it felt helpful at the time, I woke up in a lot of pain the following morning, so I haven’t felt terribly inspired to try it again.  I have also started to take baths most nights.  The hot water has helped to relieve some of the pain and combined with reading, it helps relax me and allow me to evade the ever persistent painsomnia.

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I have also started to work on puzzles more frequently.  Whether solo or with Alex, they are also a calming activity to use energy towards that helps me focus – especially in days of intense pain.  Since I am not working at the moment, I have been able to put those spoons towards other things – such as visiting with family or doing housework.  Chronic illness has really helped to put things into perspective for me.  I never thought there was going to be a day where folding laundry or emptying/loading the dishwasher would be exciting, but as a Spoonie, I see it as an achievement.

Sometimes, I am still having trouble balancing the number of spoons I use.  It’s not uncommon for me to be in the hospital the week leading up to my infusion.  Because I had energy, I pushed myself too hard the week before my infusion, and though I had fun, I definitely paid for it.  Dinner with former coworkers, dinner with my brother-in-law, his wonderful girlfriend, and her adorable dog, seeing my grandpa for the first time in over a year, hanging out with one of my best friends, and finishing the week with my Entyvio infusion and MTX shot made for a very lazy weekend. 😊  I worked on cross-stitch and dusted off my drawing skills for something my husband and I are working on.  Once I finished the book Big Little Lies, I began the series which is really good so far!  After some rest, I started the next week by having my friend and mentor over for dinner before she moves to start her new venture, which made for a really lovely night.  Later in the week, Alex and I went on a craft date to Joann Fabrics to get materials for a few different projects – he is seriously the perfect person for me!  Since 2+ hours walking around wore me out, I got to start the next day by catching up with one of my other best friends and watching The Bachelorette together over video chat.  She is someone who has always been by my side, and I love that we can still connect, even when we’re not as close location-wise as we once were.

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Medical updates within the past month haven’t been too vast.  I had my first appointment with my new primary doctor – who I learned was originally training to specialize in GI during his residency.  I also made an appointment with a new GI in my hospital system who my primary recommended.  The only other notable update is that once the insurance company processing my Short-Term Disability claim received my files, they decided to look at my records and evaluate my case for both Short-Term and Long-Term at the same time, because they recognize that my conditions – individually and combined – make for a complex case.  I was originally only going to file the LTD paperwork if I need it, but it is nice that I will likely know whether or not that would be approved prior to needing it.  They reached out to my employer for additional information and requested my medical records from both my current GI and my rheumatologist.  They have all of the information they need, and now I am just waiting to hear their decision!

I hope all my fellow spoonies are doing well!

FMLA – Week One

Week one of my medical leave has been going well.  Though I still feel weak, fatigued, and pained, I can feel myself and my body moving in the right direction.  I tried not to put too much on my plate, focusing mostly on self-care, getting my FMLA and Short-Term Disability paperwork filed, and making appointments.

I had an appointment with my rheumatologist – that Alex came with me to – where we went over my current symptoms and pain levels/locations.  My doctor increased my Cymbalta dose by 20mgs and agreed to fill out my paperwork, and I agreed to go on a walk every day – which I’ve done each day except for today.  The end of last week was filled with calls with my gastroenterologist’s office.  He had just come back from vacation, and the completion of the paperwork was taking longer than I was originally told to anticipate.  The calls back and forth were definitely causing me some stress, which lead to some retail therapy at Target where I added to my personal library collection, picked up a pair of comfortable shoes for the aforementioned walks, and strawberry blonde hair dye because I needed a change.

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On Friday, I made two appointments with specialists at Cleveland Clinic – an IBD specialist and one of the rheumatologists who run the clinic’s Fibromyalgia Management program.  The appointments are both later in the summer, but I am excited to meet with both of these doctors and see what other treatment options or plans are available to increase my quality of life.  I had a few extra spoons that day, so I decided it would be a good chance to dye my hair.  Though I love the color, I unfortunately misjudged my spoon count, and I was down for the rest of the night and into Saturday.

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Throughout the weekend, Alex and I watched both Grey’s Anatomy and Stranger Things while playing Stranger Things Monopoly (another item from my Target shopping spree).  I’ve also started reading Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty and continued working on the jigsaw puzzle I was doing, in between naps with my pups.

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Come Monday, my paperwork from my GI was finally ready to be picked up, so I ran that over to work and faxed the Short-Term Disability paperwork over to the carrier.  Between being the benefits admin at the company I work for and being the first to go through the process from the employee side, I want to write a piece on FMLA and Short-Term Disability once I have completed the approval process with the insurance company.  (For now, they have all of the information they need from me.  They will review it and reach out to notify me that I’ve been approved, denied, or that they need additional information.)

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Other than the things mentioned above, I’ve been just trying to get as much rest as possible.  In “week two”, I want to start helping out around the house more or generally trying to be more active.  Not more active than when I was working, because that would not do me any good, but more active than I have been this week.  I do think it was important to take this first week to get a lot of rest, but I want to try and find the balance in this.